Sunday, November 6, 2011
My 20 year old brother is jobless, lazy, my dad kicked him out so he's homeless, what do I do?
I am really sorry that you and your family are going through all of this with him. But my son is 24yrs old now. And when he was 18 all he wanted to do was hang aroung with his friends, now don't get me wrong he had a part time job and went to school but he was coming home at all hours of the night, until he lost his job and thought that he would get lazy on me so I put up with it for about a year, and then I could'nt take anymore so I put him out, and sometimes as parents and family members we feel sorry for them and we give to much, and that's our problem they get used to getting everything in the palm of there hands without any consideration of everyone else who is trying to help them, so when i put him out and stopped giving him money, he got really tired of hopping from home to home, he realized that it was time to get his life together. And now I am proud to say that this past June he graduated 4yrs of college and was given a fool scholarship to play football in Springfield Boston, and that's were he is at now. I think that you should deny him any money never a plate of food, and no matter how much it hurts but sometimes we have to take a different measure so that they could learn. Get him into a good christian church were he can get involved in a mens group so that he can understand what a struggle life is now at days, because it seems like he is taking advantage of the situation and as long as he knows that you will all continue to put up with his matter he will continue. I wish you all the best and I will have you in my prayers. God Bless you all.
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